Covenant of Friendship: A Reflection on 1 Samuel 20:13
"The LORD do so and much more to Jonathan: but if it please my father to do thee evil, then I will shew it thee, and send thee away, that thou mayest go in peace: and the LORD be with thee, as he hath been with my father." - 1 Samuel 20:13

In the tapestry of Scripture, few friendships stand out as profoundly as that of David and Jonathan. Their relationship is emblematic of loyalty, sacrifice, and the divine bond that can exist between individuals. Our focal scripture today, 1 Samuel 20:13, reveals Jonathan's unwavering commitment to David at a time when his own safety was threatened by his father, King Saul. The verse states, "The LORD do so and much more to Jonathan: but if it please my father to do thee evil, then I will shew it thee, and send thee away, that thou mayest go in peace: and the LORD be with thee, as he hath been with my father." In this passionate pronouncement, we find echoes of faithfulness, wisdom, and a poignant call to peace amidst turmoil.
**Covenant of Friendship**
The bond between David and Jonathan was anything but ordinary; it was forged not only in the fires of adversity but also bound by a divine covenant. Jonathan's words reflect a deep understanding of the stakes at hand. He is not just a prince protecting a friend; he is a covenant partner fully aware of the implications of his actions. The statement, "The LORD do so and much more to Jonathan," suggests an acknowledgment of the blessings from God that Jonathan had received. Jonathan invokes God’s name as he contemplates the gravity of his father’s potential evil intentions towards David. This invocation is a reminder that our relationships—especially those forged in faith—are sacred and precious in the eyes of God.
**Recognizing Evil**
"...but if it please my father to do thee evil..." Here, Jonathan shows remarkable clarity and discernment about human nature. He recognizes that despite familial ties, the influence of sin can lead even a father to commit acts of malice against another. This teaches us crucial lessons about identifying and confronting evil, even when it masquerades as familial loyalty or duty. Jonathan, as the voice of reason, sets the stage for David to flee if necessary, demonstrating that true friendship often requires sacrifices and, at times, painful separation.
**Sending Away in Peace**
The phrase, "...then I will shew it thee, and send thee away, that thou mayest go in peace," encapsulates Jonathan’s selflessness. He prepares to act, not only to protect David but to ensure his safe passage. This act of sending away is steeped in profound love. Jonathan's commitment is not just a passive acknowledgment of David's danger; it is an active measure proposing peace as the pathway forward. He understands that to truly love someone may sometimes require them to go where they will be safe, even if that means risking their own position and relationship with their father. In many ways, this position reflects the love of Christ who demonstrates ultimate sacrifice for the sake of others’ safety.
**The Presence of the Lord**
Finally, Jonathan concludes with a powerful benediction: "...and the LORD be with thee, as he hath been with my father." This blessing encapsulates the ultimate assurance of God's presence. Jonathan is well aware that although David is fleeing, he is not alone. The same Lord who was with Saul in his early days—the same Lord who had anointed David—would be with David, granting him guidance and protection along his journey. It serves as a powerful reminder to us that even in our darkest valleys, God’s promise to never leave us or forsake us remains steadfast.
In our lives, we are often called to embody the spirit of Jonathan: to recognize evil, to send friends away in peace, and to bless them with the assurance of God’s presence. As we navigate our own relationships, let us remember this covenant of friendship and the profound lessons of loyalty, sacrifice, and divine trust unveiling in these lines. May we aspire to uphold and reflect the love of Christ in our friendships and stand firm in our commitments to one another, holding each other accountable in grace and truth.
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1 Samuel 20:13 - "The LORD do so and much more to Jonathan: but if it please my father to do thee evil, then I will shew it thee, and send thee away, that thou mayest go in peace: and the LORD be with thee, as he hath been with my father."
"The LORD do so and much more to Jonathan: but if it please my father to do thee evil, then I will shew it thee, and send thee away, that thou mayest go in peace: and the LORD be with thee, as he hath been with my father." - 1 Samuel 20:13
1 Samuel 13:20 - "But all the Israelites went down to the Philistines, to sharpen every man his share, and his coulter, and his axe, and his mattock."
2 Samuel 20:13 - "When he was removed out of the highway, all the people went on after Joab, to pursue after Sheba the son of Bichri."
1 Samuel 20:27-29
1 Samuel 20:20 - "And I will shoot three arrows on the side thereof, as though I shot at a mark."
1 Samuel 16:1–13
1 Samuel 28:15-20
Acts 13:20 - "And after that he gave unto them judges about the space of four hundred and fifty years, until Samuel the prophet."
1 Samuel 20:27-30
1 Samuel 10:20 - "And when Samuel had caused all the tribes of Israel to come near, the tribe of Benjamin was taken."
1 Samuel 3:20 - "And all Israel from Dan even to Beer-sheba knew that Samuel was established to be a prophet of the LORD."
1 Samuel 12:13
1 Samuel 12:13
1 Samuel 22:11-13
1 Samuel 15:13 - "And Samuel came to Saul: and Saul said unto him, Blessed be thou of the LORD: I have performed the commandment of the LORD."
1 Samuel 13:8 - "¶ And he tarried seven days, according to the set time that Samuel had appointed: but Samuel came not to Gilgal; and the people were scattered from him."
1 Samuel 18:20 - "And Michal Saul's daughter loved David: and they told Saul, and the thing pleased him."
1 Samuel 13:23 - "And the garrison of the Philistines went out to the passage of Michmash."
1 Samuel 20:39 - "But the lad knew not any thing: only Jonathan and David knew the matter."
1 Samuel 13:1 - "Saul reigned one year; and when he had reigned two years over Israel,"
1 Samuel 13:13 - "And Samuel said to Saul, Thou hast done foolishly: thou hast not kept the commandment of the LORD thy God, which he commanded thee: for now would the LORD have established thy kingdom upon Israel for ever."
1 Samuel 13:12 Saul's disobedience
1 Samuel 7:13 - "¶ So the Philistines were subdued, and they came no more into the coast of Israel: and the hand of the LORD was against the Philistines all the days of Samuel."
1 Samuel 1:20 - "Wherefore it came to pass, when the time was come about after Hannah had conceived, that she bare a son, and called his name Samuel, saying, Because I have asked him of the LORD."
1 Samuel 8:13 - "And he will take your daughters to be confectionaries, and to be cooks, and to be bakers."
1 Samuel 13:12 No face of persons
1 Samuel 20:28 - "And Jonathan answered Saul, David earnestly asked leave of me to go to Beth-lehem:"
"But all the Israelites went down to the Philistines, to sharpen every man his share, and his coulter, and his axe, and his mattock." - 1 Samuel 13:20
"When he was removed out of the highway, all the people went on after Joab, to pursue after Sheba the son of Bichri." - 2 Samuel 20:13