Honoring Relationships: A Lesson from Moses and Jethro
"¶ And Moses went out to meet his father in law, and did obeisance, and kissed him; and they asked each other of their welfare; and they came into the tent." - Exodus 18:7

In Exodus 18:7, we witness a moment rich in emotion and significance: "And Moses went out to meet his father in law, and did obeisance, and kissed him; and they asked each other of their welfare; and they came into the tent." Through this simple act of greeting, we see a deeper narrative unfolding – one of respect, care, and the importance of familial relationships in our spiritual journeys.
Moses had just led the Israelites out of Egypt, experiencing profound trials and triumphs, witnessing miracles firsthand as he guided his people to freedom. Yet, despite his position as a leader appointed by God, he took time to honor his father-in-law, Jethro, who played a crucial role in his life both personally and spiritually. This is a powerful reminder that leadership does not isolate us but rather connects us with our roots.
First, let’s consider the act of doing obeisance – a gesture of honor and respect. In Biblical times, greeting someone with such reverence was common among those of higher rank or standing. However, Moses' act was not merely a formality. It served as a recognition of Jethro’s wisdom and experience. As leaders or influencers in any capacity, we sometimes forget the importance of humility as we navigate our roles. Moses could have easily neglected such a greeting, allowing his leadership status to overshadow the respect due to a wise elder. Yet, he chose to honor Jethro; this teaches us humility and respect for our elders.
Moreover, the kiss shared between them symbolizes warmth – an acknowledgment of their relationship, a bridge between generations, and a testament to love and connection. In today’s fast-paced world, we often forget the power of affection and familial bonds. This simple act reminds us of the importance of nurturing our relationships, especially with those who have shaped our paths. Relationships require intentionality and time, and like Moses, we must actively pursue these connections.
Their discourse – asking each other about their welfare – indicates mutual care and interest in one another's lives. This interaction highlights the necessity of communication in nurturing relationships. It serves as a gentle nudge to check in on those we love and show that we genuinely care about their well-being. In our fast-moving schedules, how easy is it to overlook reaching out to those who matter most? Perhaps it is time we prioritize these connections, creating space in our busy lives for meaningful conversations.
The phrase, "they came into the tent," symbolizes a shared space of sanctuary and communion. The tent often represents a place of shelter and intimacy in the Bible. In our journey of faith, it is crucial to cultivate spaces where we can bring others into our lives—sharing stories, experiences, and wisdom. This act of inviting others into our sphere allows us to grow collectively; as families, communities, or even congregations, we are reminded of the importance of gathering together, be it in our homes or places of worship.
In essence, Moses’ greeting of Jethro teaches us how to honor our relationships, highlighting three essential practices: humility in honoring those who have guided us, affection in maintaining our family bonds, and intentionality in nurturing our communications. As we reflect on this verse, let us commit ourselves to deepen the relationships in our lives, not merely seeing them as obligations but as opportunities for growth. Let’s not forget to greet those who have played significant roles in our lives in ways that echo the love and respect exemplified by Moses toward Jethro.
May we find joy in our connections, acknowledging that in these relationships, God often reveals His love and guidance. Let them be a reminder of His covenant with us, working through others to foster growth, understanding, and ultimately love.
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