The Pursuit of God's Chosen: Lessons from Abner's Dialogue
"¶ And Abner had communication with the elders of Israel, saying, Ye sought for David in times past to be king over you:" - 2 Samuel 3:17

In the intricate tapestry of Scripture, 2 Samuel 3:17 presents a significant moment in the political and spiritual history of Israel. The verse states, "And Abner had communication with the elders of Israel, saying, Ye sought for David in times past to be king over you." This pivotal statement highlights the longing of the elders of Israel, echoing their desire to have David, the man after God’s own heart, as their leader. Abner, who was initially aligned with Saul's house, acts as a mediator, reminding Israel of their past aspirations for David's kingship.
To fully appreciate the depth of this moment, we must first understand the context of Israel's history at this time. After Saul's death, the nation was fractured, divided between supporters of Saul's lineage and those who recognized David’s anointing by God. Despite Abner’s efforts to consolidate power under the son of Saul, there lingered the attunement within the hearts of the elders regarding God's choice for a king. Their prior yearning for David’s leadership reflects a communal recognition that God’s plans often lead to divine restoration and purpose.
The phrase "Ye sought for David in times past" reverberates with implications for our own spiritual lives. It raises the question: What have we sought in the past? What have we striven for in our relationships with God? Like the elders, our hearts are often drawn toward the clarity and righteousness that come from following God's chosen path. David was not simply a king; he represented a promise—a promise of unity, peace, and hope. In our own journey, we must consider what we seek and whether it aligns with God’s design for our life.
Abner's role as the communicator here is a crucial aspect of the verse. He was tasked with delivering a message that would influence the course of Israel's future. Abner's acknowledgment of David suggests a willingness to pivot towards God’s anointed leader, showing us that true leadership often requires humility and the courage to choose wisely, even when it means relinquishing previous allegiances. This aspect of spiritual leadership is necessary in our lives—not only in a communal context like a church or fellowship but also in our personal journeys.
Moreover, Abner’s dialogue serves as a reminder of the importance of collective acknowledgment of God’s will. When we as individuals or communities recognize and align ourselves with God’s authority, as seen through the character of David, we open the door to true restoration and divine purpose. Just as Abner confronted the elders of Israel with the truth of their past desires, we too must confront ourselves with the realities of our faith journey: Are we following what we once believed God had called us to pursue?
The desire of the elders for David was not a fleeting wish; it was a deep-seated yearning for a leader who would shepherd them according to God’s heart. In our walk of faith, do we yearn for a leader who shepherds us in alignment with God's heart? The Scriptures teach that Jesus is our ultimate Shepherd, and our desire for His lordship must transcend the distractions of this world.
As we reflect on this verse, let us be inspired to remember our covenants with God and the aspirations we once held near to our hearts. May we seek to reaffirm our commitment to follow the path laid out for us by His anointed, looking toward Jesus, who fulfills our every need and guides us into unity and purpose. Let us ask God to reignite that desire within us to pursue Him wholeheartedly, as the elders sought David, and to embrace the transformational journey He calls us to, aligning with His divine plan for our lives.
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2 Samuel 3:17 - "¶ And Abner had communication with the elders of Israel, saying, Ye sought for David in times past to be king over you:"
"¶ And Abner had communication with the elders of Israel, saying, Ye sought for David in times past to be king over you:" - 2 Samuel 3:17
2 Samuel 17:3 - "And I will bring back all the people unto thee: the man whom thou seekest is as if all returned: so all the people shall be in peace."
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2 Samuel 1. 17-27
2 Samuel 22:17-20
2 Samuel 17:26 - "So Israel and Absalom pitched in the land of Gilead."
2 Samuel 17:4 - "And the saying pleased Absalom well, and all the elders of Israel."
2 Samuel 2:17 - "And there was a very sore battle that day; and Abner was beaten, and the men of Israel, before the servants of David."
1 Samuel 17:3 - "And the Philistines stood on a mountain on the one side, and Israel stood on a mountain on the other side: and there was a valley between them."
2 Samuel 1:17 - "¶ And David lamented with this lamentation over Saul and over Jonathan his son:"
2 Samuel 17:17 - "Now Jonathan and Ahimaaz stayed by En-rogel; for they might not be seen to come into the city: and a wench went and told them; and they went and told king David."
2 Samuel 8:17 - "And Zadok the son of Ahitub, and Ahimelech the son of Abiathar, were the priests; and Seraiah was the scribe;"
2 Samuel 17:7 - "And Hushai said unto Absalom, The counsel that Ahithophel hath given is not good at this time."
2 Samuel 15:17 - "And the king went forth, and all the people after him, and tarried in a place that was far off."
2 Samuel 3:2 - "¶ And unto David were sons born in Hebron: and his firstborn was Amnon, of Ahinoam the Jezreelitess;"
2 Samuel 17:24 - "Then David came to Mahanaim. And Absalom passed over Jordan, he and all the men of Israel with him."
2 Samuel 16:17 - "And Absalom said to Hushai, Is this thy kindness to thy friend? why wentest thou not with thy friend?"
2 Samuel 7:17 - "According to all these words, and according to all this vision, so did Nathan speak unto David."
1 Samuel 2:17 - "Wherefore the sin of the young men was very great before the LORD: for men abhorred the offering of the LORD."
2 Samuel 4:3 - "And the Beerothites fled to Gittaim, and were sojourners there until this day.)"
2 Samuel 22:17 - "He sent from above, he took me; he drew me out of many waters;"
1 Samuel 17:2 - "And Saul and the men of Israel were gathered together, and pitched by the valley of Elah, and set the battle in array against the Philistines."
2 Samuel 17:19 - "And the woman took and spread a covering over the well's mouth, and spread ground corn thereon; and the thing was not known."
2 Samuel 3:4 - "And the fourth, Adonijah the son of Haggith; and the fifth, Shephatiah the son of Abital;"
2 Samuel 3:3 - "And his second, Chileab, of Abigail the wife of Nabal the Carmelite; and the third, Absalom the son of Maacah the daughter of Talmai king of Geshur;"
2 Samuel 3:11 - "And he could not answer Abner a word again, because he feared him."
2 Samuel 17:28 - "Brought beds, and basons, and earthen vessels, and wheat, and barley, and flour, and parched corn, and beans, and lentiles, and parched pulse,"
2 Samuel 17:5 - "Then said Absalom, Call now Hushai the Archite also, and let us hear likewise what he saith."
2 Corinthians 3:17 - "Now the Lord is that Spirit: and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty."