Holiness in Relationships: A Deeper Understanding of Leviticus 21:7

As we navigate the complexities of life, it is often beneficial to pause and reflect on the instructions given to us in Scripture. One such instruction is found in Leviticus 21:7 (KJV), which states, "They shall not take a wife that is a whore, or profane; neither shall they take a woman put away from her husband: for he is holy unto his God." This verse serves as a sobering reminder of the high call to holiness that God places on His people, especially those in leadership or priestly roles.

At first glance, this verse may seem archaic or culturally specific, yet it resonates with profound truths about relationships, integrity, and the character we are required to embody as followers of Christ. The holiness described here is not merely about abstaining from actions deemed sinful; it is about embodying and promoting righteousness, fidelity, and godly character in every aspect of life.

### The Call to Holiness

In Leviticus, God establishes guidelines for the priests of Israel, the spiritual leaders who were to represent Him before the people. The specific prohibition against marrying a woman considered ‘a whore’ or ‘profane’ communicates a broader principle about holiness. Holiness is not about the avoidance of sin only; it is about an active pursuit of purity in both thoughts and actions. For the priest, this meant choosing a spouse who would share in and support the sacred mission of leading God's people. In our present context, we are all called to be priests before God (1 Peter 2:9). Thus, this call to holiness applies universally.

### Understanding ‘Profane’ and ‘Put Away’

The term 'profane' in this context refers to something that is considered common or unclean, lacking in purity. Similarly, a woman who has been put away—divorced—would carry with her societal stigmas and implications that could compromise the honor and integrity of a priest’s family. These guidelines were grounded in the understanding that one's personal life must reflect God’s holiness.

It begs the question: How do we approach our relationships today, especially in the light of God’s standards? Do we settle for partnerships that do not align with our values and beliefs? Are we willing to sacrifice our spiritual health for the sake of companionship or societal acceptance? Just as the priests were called to a higher standard, we too are urged to seek relationships that reflect God’s character.

### The Impact of Our Choices

Every relationship we enter into significantly impacts who we are and our ability to fulfill our calling as believers. A significant part of holiness is accountability and the desire to uplift one another towards godliness. Choosing a partner who is committed to pursuing God can encourage us in our faith journeys. On the contrary, a relationship that drags down our spiritual fervor can lead to a slippery slope of compromise.

In a world filled with fleeting values and superficial connections, we must cling to the divine principles that promote holiness. Consider how this verse challenges our views on dating, marriage, and relationships:

1. **Choice of Partner**: Pray for wisdom in choosing partners who reflect your values.

2. **Reputation and Integrity**: Recognize the weight of your choices on your witness as a Christian.

3. **Purpose in Relationships**: Remember that relationships are meant to reflect God’s covenant love.

### Conclusion

In conclusion, Leviticus 21:7 serves not merely as a regulation for ancient priests but as a timeless principle calling us to consider the holiness of our relationships today. God’s desire is for His people to be set apart, to lead lives that honor Him. As we strive towards this, let us be mindful of the consequences of our relationship choices and actively seek ways to embody that holiness in our lives. Let us pray for purity, integrity, and partnership that glorifies God, reflecting His character in a world that desperately needs it.

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Leviticus 21:7 - "They shall not take a wife that is a whore, or profane; neither shall they take a woman put away from her husband: for he is holy unto his God."

"They shall not take a wife that is a whore, or profane; neither shall they take a woman put away from her husband: for he is holy unto his God." - Leviticus 21:7

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Leviticus 21:19 - "Or a man that is brokenfooted, or brokenhanded,"

Leviticus 21:16 - "¶ And the LORD spake unto Moses, saying,"

Leviticus 7:21 - "Moreover the soul that shall touch any unclean thing, as the uncleanness of man, or any unclean beast, or any abominable unclean thing, and eat of the flesh of the sacrifice of peace offerings, which pertain unto the LORD, even that soul shall be cut off from his people."

Leviticus 21:13 - "And he shall take a wife in her virginity."

Leviticus 17:7

"Or a man that is brokenfooted, or brokenhanded," - Leviticus 21:19

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Leviticus 21:22 - "He shall eat the bread of his God, both of the most holy, and of the holy."

Leviticus 21:24 - "And Moses told it unto Aaron, and to his sons, and unto all the children of Israel."

Leviticus 7:22 - "¶ And the LORD spake unto Moses, saying,"

Leviticus 7:28 - "¶ And the LORD spake unto Moses, saying,"

Leviticus 9:21 - "And the breasts and the right shoulder Aaron waved for a wave offering before the LORD; as Moses commanded."

Leviticus 21:4 - "But he shall not defile himself, being a chief man among his people, to profane himself."

Leviticus 21:20 - "Or crookbackt, or a dwarf, or that hath a blemish in his eye, or be scurvy, or scabbed, or hath his stones broken;"

Leviticus 7:1 - "Likewise this is the law of the trespass offering: it is most holy."

Leviticus 7:7 - "As the sin offering is, so is the trespass offering: there is one law for them: the priest that maketh atonement therewith shall have it."

"¶ And the LORD spake unto Moses, saying," - Leviticus 21:16

Leviticus 19:7 - "And if it be eaten at all on the third day, it is abominable; it shall not be accepted."

Leviticus 24:21 - "And he that killeth a beast, he shall restore it: and he that killeth a man, he shall be put to death."

Leviticus 21:21 - "No man that hath a blemish of the seed of Aaron the priest shall come nigh to offer the offerings of the LORD made by fire: he hath a blemish; he shall not come nigh to offer the bread of his God."

Leviticus 7:17 - "But the remainder of the flesh of the sacrifice on the third day shall be burnt with fire."

Leviticus 25:21 - "Then I will command my blessing upon you in the sixth year, and it shall bring forth fruit for three years."