A Prayer for Courage and Wisdom in Our Identities
"Esther had not yet shewed her kindred nor her people; as Mordecai had charged her: for Esther did the commandment of Mordecai, like as when she was brought up with him." - Esther 2:20

Heavenly Father,
As I come before You today, I humbly bow my heart in reverence and gratitude for Your everlasting love and guidance. I reflect on the profound truth found in the book of Esther, specifically Esther 2:20, where it states, “Esther had not yet shewed her kindred nor her people; as Mordecai had charged her: for Esther did the commandment of Mordecai, like as when she was brought up with him.” Lord, this scripture resonates deeply within me, prompting me to seek understanding and wisdom from Your Holy Spirit.
Lord, I acknowledge the importance of obedience, just as Esther honored the wishes of her guardian Mordecai. In a world where our identities are often overshadowed by societal expectations and pressures, I pray for the courage to remain steadfast in my identity as Your beloved child. May I, like Esther, recognize the significance of my roots and the call You’ve placed upon my life, even when it requires discretion and discernment.
Father, I ask for the grace to navigate the complexities of life with wisdom and prudence. Help me to understand when to speak up and when to remain silent, just as Esther chose to conceal her lineage for a season. In moments of uncertainty, may I lean on Your understanding instead of my own. Teach me to trust in Your timing and Your plans, knowing that You are orchestrating my life for Your purpose, just as You did for Esther in her time.
Lord, I pray for a heart that desires to follow Your commandments. Help me emulate Esther’s dedication to Mordecai’s guidance, recognizing that wisdom often comes from those who have walked the path before me. May I be open to the counsel of wise mentors who guide me toward You. Give me clarity and courage to heed their advice, just as Esther did, allowing Your will to unfold in my life.
As I reflect on Esther's unique position within the royal court, I am reminded of the influence I can have in my own circles. Lord, grant me the boldness to be a light in dark places, just as Esther became a beacon of hope for her people. Empower me to use the gifts and talents You have bestowed upon me for the betterment of others and to bring glory to Your name.
I also pray for those around me, especially those who may feel isolated or marginalized due to their backgrounds or identities. Lord, help me to remember that our worth is not determined by our surroundings or titles but by Your love and purpose for us. May I facilitate an environment of support and encouragement for those who may feel like they must hide their true selves. Like Mordecai’s influence on Esther, may I inspire others to embrace their identities with confidence, knowing You created them for a reason.
In moments of doubt, remind me of Esther’s bravery and resourcefulness. Encourage my heart to take that leap of faith when required, trusting that You are with me every step of the way. As You placed Esther in a position to change the fate of her people, remind me that You have also strategically positioned me to fulfill a purpose in this world.
Lord, may I also look to You for comfort and strength as I navigate the intricacies of life. Let me find assurance in Your Word, where it reminds me that I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Help me to embrace my identity fully, knowing that You have equipped me with everything I need to fulfill Your calling.
Ultimately, I thank You, dear Father, for the lessons we can learn from Esther’s life. May her story inspire all of us to be wise, obedient, and courageous in every aspect of our identity. May we be guided by Your Spirit as we journey through life.
In Jesus’ mighty name, I pray,
Amen.
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Esther 2:20 - "Esther had not yet shewed her kindred nor her people; as Mordecai had charged her: for Esther did the commandment of Mordecai, like as when she was brought up with him."
"Esther had not yet shewed her kindred nor her people; as Mordecai had charged her: for Esther did the commandment of Mordecai, like as when she was brought up with him." - Esther 2:20
Esther 2:22 - "And the thing was known to Mordecai, who told it unto Esther the queen; and Esther certified the king thereof in Mordecai's name."
Esther 5:2 - "And it was so, when the king saw Esther the queen standing in the court, that she obtained favour in his sight: and the king held out to Esther the golden sceptre that was in his hand. So Esther drew near, and touched the top of the sceptre."
Esther 7:2 - "And the king said again unto Esther on the second day at the banquet of wine, What is thy petition, queen Esther? and it shall be granted thee: and what is thy request? and it shall be performed, even to the half of the kingdom."
Esther 5:2
Esther 5:2
Esther 5:2
Esther 2:11 - "And Mordecai walked every day before the court of the women's house, to know how Esther did, and what should become of her."
Esther 2:10 - "Esther had not shewed her people nor her kindred: for Mordecai had charged her that she should not shew it."
Esther 5:2 - "And it was so, when the king saw Esther the queen standing in the court, that she obtained favour in his sight: and the king held out to Esther the golden sceptre that was in his hand. So Esther drew near, and touched the top of the sceptre."
"And the thing was known to Mordecai, who told it unto Esther the queen; and Esther certified the king thereof in Mordecai's name." - Esther 2:22
Esther 2:16 - "So Esther was taken unto king Ahasuerus into his house royal in the tenth month, which is the month Tebeth, in the seventh year of his reign."
Esther 8:2 - "And the king took off his ring, which he had taken from Haman, and gave it unto Mordecai. And Esther set Mordecai over the house of Haman."
Esther 9:20 - "¶ And Mordecai wrote these things, and sent letters unto all the Jews that were in all the provinces of the king Ahasuerus, both nigh and far,"
Esther 8:2 focus on the ring
Esther 2:15 - "¶ Now when the turn of Esther, the daughter of Abihail the uncle of Mordecai, who had taken her for his daughter, was come to go in unto the king, she required nothing but what Hegai the king's chamberlain, the keeper of the women, appointed. And Esther obtained favour in the sight of all them that looked upon her."
Esther 2:2 - "Then said the king's servants that ministered unto him, Let there be fair young virgins sought for the king:"
Esther 1:20 - "And when the king's decree which he shall make shall be published throughout all his empire, (for it is great,) all the wives shall give to their husbands honour, both to great and small."
Esther 2:17 - "And the king loved Esther above all the women, and she obtained grace and favour in his sight more than all the virgins; so that he set the royal crown upon her head, and made her queen instead of Vashti."
Esther 2:7 - "And he brought up Hadassah, that is, Esther, his uncle's daughter: for she had neither father nor mother, and the maid was fair and beautiful; whom Mordecai, when her father and mother were dead, took for his own daughter."
"And it was so, when the king saw Esther the queen standing in the court, that she obtained favour in his sight: and the king held out to Esther the golden sceptre that was in his hand. So Esther drew near, and touched the top of the sceptre." - Esther 5:2
Esther 2:8 - "¶ So it came to pass, when the king's commandment and his decree was heard, and when many maidens were gathered together unto Shushan the palace, to the custody of Hegai, that Esther was brought also unto the king's house, to the custody of Hegai, keeper of the women."
Esther 2:19 - "And when the virgins were gathered together the second time, then Mordecai sat in the king's gate."
Esther 1:2 - "That in those days, when the king Ahasuerus sat on the throne of his kingdom, which was in Shushan the palace,"
Esther 4:2 - "And came even before the king's gate: for none might enter into the king's gate clothed with sackcloth."
"Esther had not shewed her people nor her kindred: for Mordecai had charged her that she should not shew it." - Esther 2:10
"And Mordecai walked every day before the court of the women's house, to know how Esther did, and what should become of her." - Esther 2:11
"And the king said again unto Esther on the second day at the banquet of wine, What is thy petition, queen Esther? and it shall be granted thee: and what is thy request? and it shall be performed, even to the half of the kingdom." - Esther 7:2
Esther 2:4 - "And let the maiden which pleaseth the king be queen instead of Vashti. And the thing pleased the king; and he did so."