A Prayer for the Virtuous Woman: Embracing Proverbs 31
"Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates." - Proverbs 31:10-31
O Heavenly Father,
In awe of Your divine wisdom, we come before You with hearts full of gratitude and reverence. Your Word reminds us in Proverbs 31:10, "Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies." Lord, we seek to understand the true worth of a virtuous woman—a treasure that reflects Your character, grace, and purpose.
Father, help us to recognize and honor the women whom You have placed in our lives. May we see the reflection of virtue in their actions, their words, and their love. For it is through their diligence that they shine brightly in a world that often overlooks the beauty of a heart committed to righteousness. Your Word tells us that "the heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil."
Lord, instill in the hearts of our husbands and partners a deep-seated trust in their wives. Let us be women who earn this trust, showcasing loyalty, faithfulness, and unwavering support. Grant us the grace to do our husbands good and not evil all the days of our lives, nurturing relationships founded on mutual respect and steadfast love.
We ask for strength, Lord, as we seek to fulfill the roles You have designed for us. Empower us to work willingly with our hands, as the virtuous woman who "seeketh wool and flax." May we find joy in laboring for our families, whether it be in our homes or careers. Let our efforts yield abundance, as she who brings her food from afar, caring for not just her household, but also those in need.
In our daily responsibilities, may we rise with the dawn, bringing sustenance and nourishment to our families, as she did. Help us to be proactive and diligent, anticipating needs and meeting them before they arise. Grant us wisdom in our endeavors, as the virtuous woman considers a field and buys it, investing in futures that honor You and bless those around us.
Strengthen our arms, O Lord, as we gird ourselves with strength. Let our diligence in our tasks be complemented by the grace that shines through us, illuminating our paths through the darkness. "She perceiveth that her merchandise is good," and I pray for the discernment to understand what is pleasing in Your sight. Let our work and our talents bring glory to You.
O God, remind us to extend our hands toward the poor and needy. May our hearts overflow with compassion, allowing us to be a source of comfort and provision as we stretch forth our hands to those who are struggling. Enable us to respond to the cries of the marginalized, reflecting the love of Christ.
As we face the trials of life, help us not to fear the cold and harsh seasons, but to be prepared, knowing that "all her household are clothed with scarlet." May we, too, provide warmth and comfort to those entrusted to us.
Lord, let us be women of character, strength, and honor, as the Scripture reveals. Let us open our mouths with wisdom and speak with kindness, guiding our families with gentle truth. May we avoid the bread of idleness, remaining vigilantly active in our roles while drawing strength from Your promises.
And as our children rise up and call us blessed, let our husbands praise us publicly, reflecting the honor and recognition that come from You. May our legacy be one of virtue, instilling in the next generation the values that please You. "Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised."
Lord, instill within us a deep reverence for You, guiding our actions and thoughts. Grant us the fruit of our labor, the reward of our hard work, and let our deeds be a testimony of our faith in You. We ask this in Jesus’ name, Amen.
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Proverbs 31:10-31 - "Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates."
"Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates." - Proverbs 31:10-31
Proverbs 10:31 - "The mouth of the just bringeth forth wisdom: but the froward tongue shall be cut out."
Proverbs 31:10 - "¶ Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies."
Proverbs 31:31 - "Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates."
Proverbs:31:28
Proverbs 31:21
"The mouth of the just shall bring forth wisdom: the tongue of the perverse shall perish." - Proverbs 10:31
Proverbs 8:22-31
"The mouth of the just bringeth forth wisdom: but the froward tongue shall be cut out." - Proverbs 10:31
"¶ Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies." - Proverbs 31:10
Mark 10:31
Proverbs 21:31 - "The horse is prepared against the day of battle: but safety is of the LORD."
Proverbs 3:31 - "¶ Envy thou not the oppressor, and choose none of his ways."
Proverbs 15:31 - "The ear that heareth the reproof of life abideth among the wise."
Proverbs 16:31 - "The hoary head is a crown of glory, if it be found in the way of righteousness."
Proverbs 31:5 - "Lest they drink, and forget the law, and pervert the judgment of any of the afflicted."
Proverbs 31:1 - "The words of king Lemuel, the prophecy that his mother taught him."
Proverbs 31:17 - "She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms."
Proverbs 31:13 - "She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands."
Proverbs 31:8 - "Open thy mouth for the dumb in the cause of all such as are appointed to destruction."
Proverbs 8:22-31 – Wisdom’s role in creation.
Proverbs 1:31 - "Therefore shall they eat of the fruit of their own way, and be filled with their own devices."
Proverbs 30:31 - "A greyhound; an he goat also; and a king, against whom there is no rising up."
Proverbs 31:9 - "Open thy mouth, judge righteously, and plead the cause of the poor and needy."
Proverbs 31:19 - "She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff."
Proverbs 31:24 - "She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant."
Proverbs 31:25 - "Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come."
Proverbs 31:26 - "She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness."
Proverbs 11:31 - "Behold, the righteous shall be recompensed in the earth: much more the wicked and the sinner."